oblivious.

rather than being on the

DEFENSIVE,

why not be on the

OFFENSIVE?

does it feel better to strike out than to receive blows? why don't i strike first to reduce hurt, rather than sit and wait for an attack on my feelings? why don't i armour myself with a hard heart, with aloofness and with indifference. will that cushion me against an oblivious attacker?

my head hurts.