i was chatting to ange and the topic of friends vs boyfriends came up. both of us noted that most friends who became attached tend to slowly drift out of our lives. is this a case of zhong4 se4 qing1 you3? are friends really less important than bf/gf?
why is it so difficult to take out a tiny fraction of your free time to meet up with friends, rather than devoting all that time to your other half? is he/she really The One? Are friends just something to occupy your time while you fish about for the ideal mate? And when you found someone special, somehow friends seem less important. This is an ironic school of thought considering that if you were to hit a rough patch in your relationship, it is the neglected friend who will lend you a shoulder to cry on.
the thought of being a zhong4 se4 qing1 you3 fiend truly terrified ange and i, and we vow never to succumb to such selfishness. dear friends, if ever i become such, pls give me a slap in the face to wake me up.
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i'm one of thsoe who left early! There aren't excuses, but i know inside, everyone does treasure the friendship. i guess some of us need hard knocks like your blog to wake up a bit *sheepish*. i'll be the starter!! haa get everyone to dedicate more time =) promise k? knock me if i do it again
hi hi... i hope i'm nt zhong4 se4 qing1 you3... =( sorry if i became one... u must let me knw k... i dnt wana lose any of you... i do try to plan my time so that i can spend time with my frends and my dear dear... am i nt doing well enuf? =( -do u check your comments??-
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